5 Ways to Honor Those Who Have Passed During Your Wedding

Deciding how to include loved ones who are no longer bound by body to this earth is a deeply personal choice for your wedding day.

My grandmother has shaped who I am and I give her most of the credit for my love of officiating. I will definitely incorporate her in my wedding day in some way whether it’s a bouquet charm, wearing a ring of hers or including a moment of remembrance during the ceremony.

Photo: Cappy Phalen Photography

1. Bouquet Charm

A lovely touch because no words need to be said to feel and honor their presence.

2. Save Them A Seat

The groomsmen each placed a flower on this chair as they walked in to honor family members and loved ones who had passed.

I’ve also seen a bride hang her grandfather’s military jacket on a chair.

3. Wear a Memorable Piece of Jewelry

In this case, the bride is wearing a bracelet that belongs to her (now) husband. It was given to him by his mom who passed. The green cord may seem like it would clash with classy wedding vibes, but it holds special meaning. You see, the bride never had the opportunity to meet her husband’s mom so to honor her memory the bride chose to wear this bracelet.

4. A Memorial Table

If you’re having a larger ceremony with a reception, this is a nice way to honor family in a way that all guests can have a moment to reflect

Photography: Jen Yuson Photography

5. Include a Moment of Remembrance in the Ceremony

SAMPLE SCRIPT: As we begin, we also recognize those who could not be here today, whether they are in other places around this world or are no longer bound by body to this Earth for they too are a part of shaping Partner and Partner into the people they are today.

Please take a moment of silence for those well-loved and let their spirits brighten and warm your hearts. 

Photo: Fontana Lane